I’m Caiti. Mama of girls. Wife of Big Bill. I’m a ‘Type A minus’ who will always be just a little bit of a mess. Writing is my love language and reading is my superpower. I’m a bleeding heart. A Christ follower. A romance novel junkie. In case of emergency, my blood type is coffee.

And I am in the middle of a total life renovation. Kind of like Fixer Upper or Good Bones except instead of houses it’s my actual life. Me. Myself.

Welcome to my Best Life Project.

So how did I get here? Dude, how much time do you have? Just kidding, I’ll try to keep it short. This all started when our family was pounded by a season of prolonged heartache and hopelessness.

My husband and I went through three years of unexplained secondary infertility. In the middle of all of that we lost Bill’s mom after a long fight with interstitial pulmonary fibrosis. Grief. Depression. Infertility. It was a total shiz show around here for years.

It almost broke me. But it didn’t. Instead it remade me.

My Pink Butterflies is about resurrection. Not just coming back to life but being made new. The pink part is for me. My dreams and passions and all the beautiful things that make my heart beat faster. And butterflies? Because butterflies only exist after a complete breakdown and metamorphosis. Death and new life.

Thank you for being here!